Im not happy in my relationship or in life?

Well, if you have that kind of question in your mind right now...take this. Happiness in a relationship where you are not happy 95% of the time for whatever reason is not happiness. I'm kind of in the same spot as you: "I do not enjoy what I love." I dated my ex. We went through the same cycle as we did the first time we dated just about 10x faster, which is good because I didn't waste another 3 years on her.

Not enjoying what you love is not growing up. That's growing apart. You have to accept that while she makes you happy sometimes you are not happy all of the time. You WILL find someone else you love just as much if not more. It may not feel like it but trust me, you will. I love my ex (We just broke up a week ago). But I do not love the way she treats me. She makes me happy sometimes. But most of the time I'm displeased about something. I'm worth more than that. And so are you.

Cut her loose. Enjoy college and life. Life will be easier without having to deal with her baggage too. And sooner or later you'll meet someone worth dating and you'll wonder why you ever bothered to deal with your ex's ****.

As for your friends, who cares if they seem busy! Just message them on facebook or something. Say "hey, you seem pretty busy but I was wondering if you could pencil me in to do something sometime soon =)"